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A winner amongst women wanting off the relationship
rollercoaster.
QUOTES FROM BOOK
THE PROBLEM WITH “I LOVE
YOU”.
The problem is we use the word ‘love’ for such a diverse range
of things, is it any wonder poor male brains get confused:
‘I love pizza, I love footy, I love my mum, I love my collection
of porn magazines, I love that perfume you’re wearing and I LOVE
YOU!
In the ancient sanskrit there were 96 words for love. In ancient
Persia there were 80, in Latin 5, Greek 4 and English only 1.
The ancients were smart when they divided this up into rather
more categories, and men know this more than anyone. Science
has classified them chemically into 4 sections…….
IS HE
A PLAYER OR A STAYER
Men
in relationships come in two flavours no matter which variation
on the boy meet girl theme you pick, or where on the T scale
they sit.
Those
who are’ in’ a relationship – The Stayer
Those
who are ‘having’ a relationship – The Player.
What’s the difference you ask?
The
difference is that you’re most likely reading this book because
of guys that were, or are ‘having’ a relation with you
not ‘in’ it. When men ‘have’ a relationship they look for
outside motivations to keep it going, upsides, perks, you be
nice to me and ill be nice to you. You give me what I want and
Ill let you hang around. The trade! When we are ‘IN’ a
relationship this is when we display the FIFTH ELEMENT. It comes
from an internal desire or inspiration to make something
together better than the sum of two parts. Doing whatever
it takes, as selflessly as we are capable of, to grow together
in a mutually enjoyable lasting experience. BIG DIFFERENCE!!!
Men are like a fine wine. They start out like
grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the
dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner
with.
Female Author Unknown
SHOCK HORROR
A study by anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher PhD of
Rutgers University has discovered that sex, attraction and love
are split into 3 distinct sections that over lap, but also are
experienced independently.
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Being
unhappy with the one person you’re stuck picking up
dirty socks for and listening to snore seems like a
huge waste of time and energy. And considering there are a few billion people on the planet to choose
from you may wonder why you always seem to end up
with Mr ‘What Was I Thinking’?
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It’s not
enough to know ‘he’s just not that into you’, you
need to know why?
And
how to avoid making the same mistakes again.
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How would you act if you had 200 to 400 per cent
more stimuli driving you to look at the opposite
sex?
Perhaps women’s magazines would be very different and
‘Bride to be’ would be called ‘One Night’ Stand instead.
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It would
certainly kill the romance on Valentine’s Day if you
got a card saying ‘My serotonin levels gush for
you.’
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Mens
Oxytocin levels (the cuddle chemical) are highest
just before his orgasm - So when he yells, ‘Baby, I
love you, I’m coming!’, for that moment in time at
least he may really mean it!
That’s gotta make you feel special!
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Constantly thinking about your beau, scribbling his
name on the mouse pad or hanging by the phone might
seem romantic but scientifically and chemically
speaking it is identical to OCD Obsessive Compulsive
Dorder
or madness.
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It’s
really, really easy to see what a man loves or puts
highest on his value system if you watch his
actions.
His attention, time and energy will be focused on his
highest priority.
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Men have
little desire for a ‘relationship’ chemically, and
don’t spend much time looking or thinking about what
they mean until later in life.
Which is one of the reasons they are generally so crap
at them.
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Forcing
him to think about an abstract future concept
relationship you’re fantasising about, fraught with
emotions and speculation, is something akin to
thinking about when he next has to go to the
dentist.
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Most of
a man’s life is spent as a player ‘having’
relationships, and often he doesn’t even realise
this fact.
You can live with a player for years and pretend he is a
stayer but you probably know better—it’s all about him!
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For the
player it’s a great place to have a woman: on the
edge of her emotional seat, questioning her better
judgments, with her bullshit meter jammed off!
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Look out
for
W.O.R.M.’s
—‘Weak Overcompensating Relationship Manipulator’
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For the
player it’s a great place to have a woman: on the
edge of her emotional seat, questioning her better
judgments, with her bullshit meter jammed
TESTIMONIES
Thank you so much you have changed the way I see my man, I never
appreciated how lucky I was until I read my book and
learnt to understand his guyspeak
– J Carpenter
My stylist told me about your book , I went and bought it straight away.
You made my scrambled, painful emotions clear . -
Michelle L
Hi Geoff LOVED your book…..what an eye opener it was
for me….Olga
I have just finished your book and now i'm reading it again for the
second time. Thankyou very much its a book that i've
reccommended to all my girlfriends –
B Samuels
Barkers extensive research into the scientific facts behind male
behaviour has produced a book that is insightful and at
times, riotously funny
- Examiner
This book is truly unique in its search for the truth. I expected a light
read and got an rare insight that has changed my
perspective on men forever. Thank you so much Geoff – Kassy Y
Reading your book as a guy it dawned on me why I had such problems
finding women I wanted to settle down with....... Thanks
for giving me the guts to take an honest look at myself
.... Martin
This informative and honest funny book provides a dose of realism and
will cause you to cringe when you recognise some of the
behaviours it describes - a must read for any woman -
N.W magazine
Geoff reveals the secrets of the male mind in his intriguing new book
enlightening women everywhere - Launceston news
Where was this book when I was wasting the last 10 years with losers. You
changed my life Geoff and my opinion of myself thanks
– C Bathurst
You have saved my self esteem and my relationship Geoff I have told all
my female friends not to call me about boyfriend
problems unless they have read your book first – Suzan
I feel so much more confidant meeting guys knowing exactly what to look
for and how to spot the bad ones........ Marrisa T
I have read
all those books, secrets about men women should know
about, complete rules and his not into you. Somehow they
really didn't help. I always was trying to find the
right guy to get married too instead of enjoying my life
and the now. So things have changed for me and i
thankyou so much. Now i know its not me and i'm ok -
Kat
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